Me and tantra

My name is Matthias. I first came into contact with tantra in April 2022. It had been beckoning to me for a while, but I didn’t dare go for it at the time. It felt too unfamiliar, I had too much judgment about it and I was too worried about what people would think of me if I engaged in it.

But on that first weekend of April 2022, the spark struck. Although it was an introductory weekend and offered very low-threshold, I immediately felt in my system that something was touched that had been waiting all along to be allowed to be awakened. Afterwards in the evaluation, I formulated it as follows:

“I don’t know what is going on, but my heart has never been so overflowing with bliss. I have seen myself this week doing things, hearing myself say things,… that were part of me before, but never dared, could, allowed them from myself. What an experience! And it just keeps on going! I feel soooo grateful for life, for the people I was able to meet, for what I was able to experience that weekend and the past week.”

That weekend was the beginning of a journey that is far from over, unfolding like a path as I walk it.

And that journey is fuelled and coloured by other things I am working on or coming my way: my reflections and search for a healthy balance between masculine and feminine energy, the physical and energetic release during extatic dance, the exploration of sexuality, shamanism,…

After that introduction weekend, I decided to dive deeper into the world of tantra and opted for an intense year-long programme: for a whole year, in 6 different modules, I was able to discover many sides of tantra and thus also many sides of myself: I had to face recurring patterns and conditioning from the past and learned to transform them along the way. But also unknown qualities have revealed themselves and all these processes together have made me a more and more complete human being.

Also during the 8-week tantra massage course I took in the Netherlands, I noticed that (tantra) massage is a language that was hidden in me but is only now revealing itself. While doing so, I felt that through my presence I create an atmosphere of respect, trust and loving devotion where people feel safe. With my softness and firmness, I offer them a profound experience where they can let go of their rationality and surrender to the powerful energy that is released in them.

New paths present themselves that will provide even more depth, for me as a tantra masseur, and of course also as a human being. I am already looking forward to it. In the meantime, I am happy to offer such profound experiences to any who wish to walk this unknown but so much more beautiful path of self-development and self-care.


“It felt like hundreds of thousands of wings were opening up in my body,” he says.

“I felt undefined: neither man nor woman, young nor old. Just ‘being'”

“I felt very happy and young.”


What can you expect?

  • A clear and safe framework
  • A physical experience
  • A warm and gentle environment to land and enjoy
  • Experienced hands
  • A profound experience

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‘Strange really, we only see our outside but almost everything happens inside.”

(from : The boy, the mole the fox and the horse – Charlie Mackesy)